Rocket wrote: ↑Fri May 10, 2024 12:11 pm
I’ve told him to save his money and stop buying so much stuff but it falls on deaf ears.
Of course it falls on deaf ears. From his point of view, why should he stop or even slow down as long as the money keeps coming?
Just out of curiosity, if the money ever stops or the amount he gets is cut, how long do you think it will be before he's gone? I have no idea which boy you're talking about or if I've ever seen him or photos, but if he's that much of a "head turner" if another farang comes along and offers him substantially more, what do you think he will do?
I hope you are prepared for those kinds of possibilities because I think you know as well as I do - sooner or later . . . I've seen far too many farang spend everything they've got, to the point they were financially ruined trying to hold on to a boy, and every time in the end they failed. And I mean
every time.
I don't believe for a second that you're his first farang and I can just about guarantee you won't be his last. As long as you realize it and that's how you want it to be and are prepared for it when that day comes, you may emerge from it relatively unscathed. But if not, all I can say is the time bomb is ticking.
I don't know you, so I have no clue how savvy or naive you are, but either way
please - I don't want to hear "Not this boy. He's different."