Sometimes.
On the one hand I'm trying not to cause offence, but on the other hand I definitely don't want to be chatting so much that it sets expectations of more frequent meetings for my next trip.
I've turned off notifications, so there will be a delay in any replies I do send.
Meanwhile, with another boy, I'd foolishly agreed to contribute to a specific expense, as soon as I see a receipt.
He seem to think don't trust him.
Maybe there's some culture difference. Where I come from, if settling up for some shopping bought on behalf of someone or a shared expense with friends or family, it's normal to produce a receipt. Despite 100% trust. No one asks for the receipt, as it's produced anyway. For a start, it reduces the odds of genuine mistake. Isn't this normal ?
So with a bar boy, "trust & verify" does not seem unreasonable. Especially when we're not quite at 100% trust yet.